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Hooah to All That: On Leaving NYC for a Writing Life in a Military Town

Photo: "Choke" by Gisela Giardino on Flickr. (CC BY-SA 2.0)

My writer friends tend to see my new world as grist for writing, and I suppose it is. But this is also my life, not some sociological quest. I am not play-acting the soldier’s wife; my husband is not play-acting deployment; we are not play-acting strained 1 AM phone conversations that are being monitored in Afghanistan. This may be a journey I’m undertaking, but on many days it feels like a destination in which I am stuck: I’ve arrived, and this is it, this is all.

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The Army – and this, I’m sure, will be a real shocker – is a lot about fitting in: Wearing the right clothes, having the right values. Tossing around one’s real opinions can be a dangerous activity here, and, so, to a certain extent, we all play-act out of a pressing need to survive; we hide the parts of ourselves that we think may be indecent or suspicious. Writing feels like one of these things, a kind of taboo, a questionable waste of time. Sometimes, I feel as though I’m back in high school, hiding my bad poetry away in my math folder, afraid that people might find out who I actually am.

Simone Gorrindo writing in Vela Mag, on leaving New York for a small, conservative military town and the dissonances between the writing life and being a soldier’s wife.

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The Tragedy of the American Military

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The story of “a country willing to do anything for its military except take it seriously.” How the public and politicians became disconnected from those who serve.

Source: The Atlantic
Published: Dec 31, 2014
Length: 41 minutes (10,355 words)

The Military’s Secret Shame

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What happened to Jeloudov is a part of life in the armed forces that hardly anyone talks about: male-on-male sexual assault. In the staunchly traditional military culture, it’s an ugly secret, kept hidden by layers of personal shame and official denial. Last year nearly 50,000 male veterans screened positive for “military sexual trauma” at the Department of Veterans Affairs, up from just over 30,000 in 2003. For the victims, the experience is a special kind of hell—a soldier can’t just quit his job to get away from his abusers.

Source: Newsweek
Published: Apr 3, 2011
Length: 8 minutes (2,222 words)

On Military Life and Sacrifice

On Military Life and Sacrifice

On Military Life and Sacrifice

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Before he addressed the crowd that had assembled in the St. Louis Hyatt Regency ballroom last November, Lt. Gen. John F. Kelly had one request. “Please don’t mention my son,” he asked the Marine Corps officer introducing him. Four days earlier, 2nd Lt. Robert M. Kelly , 29, had stepped on a land mine while leading a platoon of Marines in southern Afghanistan. He was killed instantly. Without once referring to his son’s death, the general delivered a passionate and at times angry speech about the military’s sacrifices and its troops’ growing sense of isolation from society.

Author: Greg Jaffe
Source: Washington Post
Published: Mar 2, 2011
Length: 11 minutes (2,890 words)

On the Square: Were the Egyptian Protesters Right to Trust the Military?

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We discussed possible leaders. None of the opposition parties had been able to garner any significant support among the protesters. Most seemed well-meaning but amateurish, and were headed by an older generation. I mentioned Mohamed ElBaradei, the Nobel Peace Prize laureate, who had returned to Egypt from Vienna, where he lives, and quickly became associated with the protests. Sherif, like many on the square, was unimpressed: “Baradei? Where is he? He came to the square for four or five minutes and then left. My sister says he’s on the news channels every five minutes, saying, I did this and I did that and I said all that and I predicted that. But he’s been in Vienna this whole time.”

Source: The New Yorker
Published: Feb 21, 2011
Length: 30 minutes (7,501 words)

The Terminator Scenario: Are We Giving Our Military Machines Too Much Power?

The Terminator Scenario: Are We Giving Our Military Machines Too Much Power?

The Terminator Scenario: Are We Giving Our Military Machines Too Much Power?

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Robots will come to possess far greater intelligence, with more ability to reason and self-adapt, and they will also of course acquire ever greater destructive power. So what does it mean when whatever can go wrong with these military machines, just might?

Author: Ben Austen
Source: Popular Science
Published: Dec 14, 2010
Length: 18 minutes (4,631 words)

Do Ask, Must Tell: Turkey's military doesn't just discriminate against gays — it humiliates them

Do Ask, Must Tell: Turkey’s military doesn’t just discriminate against gays — it humiliates them

A Very Big Little Country

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“Today, there are nearly 100 active micronations around the world, although the number fluctuates frequently. They engage in diplomacy, have feuds, military uniforms, and self-fashioned leaders with opulent titles, because—well, why not?”

Source: AFAR
Published: Oct 13, 2021
Length: 15 minutes (3,919 words)