Cult of the Literary Sad Woman

If sadness once struck me as terminally hip, then I’ve arrived on the far side of 35 with a deepening appreciation for the ways pleasure and satisfaction can become structuring forces of identity as well.

Published: Nov 7, 2019
Length: 10 minutes (2,500 words)

The Quickening

A memoir of giving birth after years with an eating disorder.

Source: The Atlantic
Published: Aug 21, 2019
Length: 22 minutes (5,711 words)

Leslie Jamison On The Lies She’s Told

Big lies, small lies, lies of omission. Leslie Jamison fesses up to how lying had become a way to avoid conflict, her flaws, and having to face up to and deal with her uglier emotions.

Source: BuzzFeed
Published: Apr 3, 2018
Length: 7 minutes (1,989 words)

Does Recovery Kill Great Writing?

In this excerpt from her book, The Recovering: Intoxication and Its Aftermath, Leslie Jamison recalls how in the early days of recovery, she examined the work of newly-sober writers like John Berryman and Charles Jackson for clues about how sobriety would affect her as a writer. It wasn’t until she read David Foster Wallace’s Infinite Jest that she found “proof that sober creativity was possible.”

Published: Mar 13, 2018
Length: 24 minutes (6,187 words)

The Breakup Museum: Archiving the Way We Were

Essayist Leslie Jamison visits the Breakup Museum in Zagreb, Croatia — created in 2003 after founders Olinka Vištica and Dražen Grubišić ended their relationship — and considers what stories are told by the objects we shared with former loved ones.

Published: Feb 14, 2018
Length: 27 minutes (6,793 words)

I Used to Insist I Didn’t Get Angry. Not Anymore.

An essay examining women’s long-standing conditioning away from owning and expressing anger, instead often sublimating their rage in sadness, which has historically been more acceptable.

Published: Jan 17, 2018
Length: 17 minutes (4,335 words)

The Digital Ruins of a Forgotten Future

Leslie Jamison profiles several long-term, hard-core users of Second Life, an online platform in which you create a fantasy alter-ego. Your “selective self” resides in a virtual world that allows you to leave behind everything you don’t like about yourself and your real life.

Source: The Atlantic
Published: Dec 1, 2017
Length: 36 minutes (9,171 words)

In the Shadow of a Fairy Tale

Leslie Jamison is stepmother to Lily, age 6. Lily’s mother died of cancer just before Lily turned three. Jamison explores fairy tale stepmothers both as the rare “port in the storm” and the much more common “stock villain” — stereotyped by cruelty, abuse, and withholding affection — as she reflects on her relationship with Lily and on navigating the fraught role of stand-in parent.

Published: Apr 6, 2017
Length: 26 minutes (6,523 words)

The Possibilities of the Personal

Leslie Jamison’s speech on writing about personal experiences. “If you honor the complexity of your own life—if you grant us entry into moments that hold shame or hurt or heat, and if you’re willing to follow that heat, to feel out where all the small fires burn, then your readers will trust you.”

Published: Oct 23, 2015
Length: 14 minutes (3,600 words)

Confessional Writing Is Not Self-indulgent

The author of The Empathy Exams on the power of personal stories.

Source: The Guardian
Published: Jul 4, 2014
Length: 10 minutes (2,696 words)