Rescuing Cesar

“Dog Whisperer” Cesar Millan is turning his life back around after a series of bad business deals and a messy divorce caused him to attempt to take his own life:

“I visited Millan at the ranch a few months after his suicide attempt. When I arrived he was lying on a bench in the shade, sweating through a purple polo shirt, with a bottle of Maalox resting on his chest. ‘I’m still managing the depression, the anger, the insecurity,’ he told me, ‘but I am moving forward.’ A pair of hyperactive huskies belonging to his close friend Jada Pinkett Smith ran through the hills pulling a sled Millan had modified for the rocky terrain. Junior, a sleek, gray three-year-old pit bull he was grooming to take Daddy’s place, lay quietly under the bench, watching Millan’s every move. ‘I couldn’t have done what I do without Daddy,’ he said, ‘and now I can’t do it without Junior. There’s always a pit bull there supporting me.’

“Millan is a short, stocky guy – ‘like a burrito,’ he says – but he carries himself with a straight back, chest jutted out, a natural alpha. When he arrived in the United States 22 years ago, he knew only a single English word – ‘OK’ – and he still talks in a loose, colloquial SoCal Spanglish, rolling through sentences with mixed-up tenses, calling his dog Blizzard a ‘Jello Lab,’ pronouncing buffet with a hard t and sushi as ‘su-chi.’ On ‘Dog Whisperer,’ Millan uses the language deficit to his advantage, putting clients at ease with his always polite, effortlessly funny broken-English banter as he (often painfully) dissects their troubled relationships with their dogs. In person he’s just as charming – open, inquisitive, with a quick mind and a slightly rough edge that makes him even more likable. For all his alpha-male poise, Millan also possesses humility, which he says comes with the job. ‘In my field, working with animals, they detest egotistical people,’ he says. ‘Dogs are wise. They don’t buy BS. . . . When you are egotistical, you’re not grounded. So it’s not even an option for me to become disconnected or lose my grounding.'”

Author: Jason Fine
Source: Men’s Journal
Published: Feb 18, 2013
Length: 23 minutes (5,817 words)